Giving and receiving compliments - Intermediate English lesson
In this lesson, Ceema tells you certain points one must keep in mind while giving and receiving compliments.
The key points while a compliment are :
1. Be sincere : Your compliment must be sincere and genuine. A spontaneous compliment is always sincere because you don't think in advance. It should be positive and full of enthusiasm.
2. Be specific : Be specific to make your compliment effective. Avoid generalization.
3. Don't compare achievements : Compliment a person based on his/her merit. Do not compare them with others.
4. Timely : This involves giving compliments as soon as the achievement is accomplished.
The key points while receiving a compliment are :
1. Don't shrug off or disagree : Smile and say thank you when you are complimented. Accept it gracefully.
2. Don't upscale (increase the value) a compliment : Don't say you way better than the compliment given to you.
3. Avoid complimenting back immediately : When you are complimented for something, do not compliment the person back. It seems insincere and as though you are reciprocating for the sake of it.
In this lesson, Ceema tells you certain points one must keep in mind while giving and receiving compliments.
The key points while a compliment are :
1. Be sincere : Your compliment must be sincere and genuine. A spontaneous compliment is always sincere because you don't think in advance. It should be positive and full of enthusiasm.
2. Be specific : Be specific to make your compliment effective. Avoid generalization.
3. Don't compare achievements : Compliment a person based on his/her merit. Do not compare them with others.
4. Timely : This involves giving compliments as soon as the achievement is accomplished.
The key points while receiving a compliment are :
1. Don't shrug off or disagree : Smile and say thank you when you are complimented. Accept it gracefully.
2. Don't upscale (increase the value) a compliment : Don't say you way better than the compliment given to you.
3. Avoid complimenting back immediately : When you are complimented for something, do not compliment the person back. It seems insincere and as though you are reciprocating for the sake of it.
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