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When parents weaponize giving

Person 1: My parents always bring it up everything they spent on me as a kid.
And I'm still hearing about how much college cost.
Therapist: Okay, it's like they're keeping score?
Person 1: Exactly, so now I don't take anything from them. And I'm actually scared to get help from anyone else. I feel like it'll be weaponized against me.
Therapist: Like you're always questioning if someone has an ulterior motive?
Person 1: Yeah, it seemed like my parents were really generous in doing nice things for me, but the nice things always came with a catch.
Therapist: Could that be why you feel like you're being used a lot in your friendships? Or that people aren't being real with you?
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The Holistic Psychologist, Dr. Nicole Lepera
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