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Growing Up in a Judgmental Home?
Complete transcript:

Parent: I'm a parent who almost always, talks about people in a negative way.
I judge their appearance, their body, and really anything else I can.

Child: Oh yeah, we've noticed.

Parent: It's really how I make conversation, I don't know how to talk about ideas or things of interest. Gossip is really my go-to topic.

Child: And you know what that's teaching me? Well, because I think this is normal, I think everyone is like this. When I walk into a room I'm starting to think everyone is talking negatively about me (this is how social anxiety can develop). I see someone looking at me and think they're making fun of me or criticizing me for my weight. I'm developing a fear of being perceived. Do you know what that is?

Parent: No

Child: Okay, here's what I'm learning. Everyone is harsh and judgemental. You mention someone's appearance in almost every story you tell, even though it's not relevant to the story you're telling. So now I'm super focused on how I look. I already started a diet, but you probably didn't notice anyway. The fear of being perceived is getting worse and worse until I develop social anxiety by the time I'm in my 20s. The worst part, is that it will affect my relationship with you. Because I want to tell you everything about the people I'm dating. About all of my friends, but you'll never have anything positive to say. I'll regret coming to you in the first place. So I'll just shut down and when I do, you'll say things like "How come you never tell us anything."
Category
Spiritual
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Dr. Nicole, The SelfHealers Circle, How to be the love you seek
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