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If dismissive avoidants were being honest: truths revealed

Person 1: I just don't think I can give you what you need.
Person 2 : You haven't even asked what I need.
Person 1: I just can't ever make you happy.
Person 2: Is this because I brought up an issue I had earlier? And you feel like it's a personal attack?
Person 1: see even now you look upset. And I can't deal with you when you're upset, because I don't even know how to understand my own feelings. Let alone what you're feeling. So instead I just make you feel like you're too much. I don't know how to say any of this to you directly. So I'm just going to slowly withdraw from the relationship. I'll stop getting back to your text or planning anything for us. Or really doing anything sweet at all for you.
Person 2: Okay why wouldn't you just come and talk to me about this?
I try and talk to you about things, but you just get so defensive. I just wanna know how you're feeling.
Person 1: I don't talk about how I feel. Instead, I'll just pull away more and more and tell you I'm busy with work. I'm most comfortable in a disconnected relationship. Where you don't require much of anything from me. So, you'll either get used to it, or you'll pressure me to having more connection. And I'll just hope you eventually break up with me. So that I don't actually have to.
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Spiritual
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The Holistic Psychologist, Dr. Nicole Lepera
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