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complete transcript: Mothers aren't meant to do it alone

Mother: You're being raised by a father who doesn't know how to be a partner.
Child: I've noticed.
Mother: Oh yeah?
Child: Yeah, I watch you do almost everything, from going to work to getting me ready to cleaning up the house. And I notice when you're upset, you shut down and keep it to yourself too. Because he struggles to be there for you emotionally. I see you mom.
Mom: exactly, your father has come from a generational belief, that all men need to do is go to work, and home home he's hands off, just like his own father was. He means well but I don't think he fully understands, what being a partner would actually even look like.

Child: I you ask me it's time to break that cycle.
Mom: Agree!
Child: even this Saturday, he let you know that he'll be gone all day to watch football at a friend's house. Which means you're pretty much responsible for me and my brothers all by yourself and he has the expectation that you won't bother him, and you do it all by yourself. Last time I checked you don't get full days to yourself where you're not bothered.

Child: Okay, here's what I think, it's time for a change, mom's need help. They don't just want someone who provides, they need someone to step and be a true partner. Wouldn't it be nice if dad said next Saturday he would make you breakfast in bed? And he would take care of us? Or if he saw the kitchen and cleaned without being asked. Or if at the end of the day, he left you a note telling what great mother you are. And he's so grateful for all the little things you do.

Child: A girl can dream a true partner gives emotional support. And when I see my dad doing these things, I learn to expect the same from my future partner.
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