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Complete transcript: When your parent says "why don’t you tell me anything?"| Quick insights

Parent: You never come to me about anything. Why don't you tell me anything about your life?
Adult child: The last time I told you something, and also told you not to tell anyone, you told multiple people and it got back to me remember?
Parent: Oh my god, here we go I'm a terrible mother. So I deserve to know nothing about your life.
Adult child: That isn't what I said. You asked me why I don't tell you anything. And I'm letting you know it's because I don't trust you won't tell other people what I share. Even when I ask you not to.
Parent: Why are you picking on me?
Adult child: In order to share with you. I need to feel safe, trust has to be rebuilt, so I know that when I share with you no one else is going to know what I share. You're in control of how much I tell you, by understanding boundaries and not sharing without my permission. But, it seems like you're not willing to see the role that you play in this, so I stopped sharing all together.
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Spiritual
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Dr. Nicole, The SelfHealers Circle, How to be the love you seek
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