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Complete transcript: Your mother seeks validation

Emotionally immature mothers are one way in private and one way in public. At home they're very critical and shut down they don't actually take interest in their children, but in public it's really important for them to put on a persona of a really involved mother. I've worked with a lot of people who never heard their mother say anything good or kind to them, but heard their mom bragging about their accomplishments to other people.

Obviously this is really confusing to experience, but what's important to understand is that emotionally immature mothers are extremely focused on external validation. They need a steady stream of attention and admiration. The way they act at home isn't because they don't love or care about their children it's because emotionally immature mothers have this deep hole within themselves. And that hole is covered in shame to avoid feeling that shame they create public personas this is why they have a jackal and hide way of interacting.

#motherwound #familydynamics #emotionalhealing #selfhelp #selfimprovement
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Spiritual
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Dr. Nicole, The SelfHealers Circle, How to be the love you seek
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