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Complete transcript: The passive parent

You know, I've always looked up to my dad and then I realized he wasn't actually nice. He enabled my mom abusing me. Your dad was the enabler parent. He was passive and neglectful when he should have protected you. It's true. I always thought he was the calm one and he never acted like her, but he didn't stop her either. Mhm. I know he was associated, but he needed to tell me that it wasn't okay. He needed to stand up to her and let her know that it wasn't okay to talk to me like that.

He took me places and he bought me things, but we never really talked about what happened. He tried to make up for it in other ways, but not talking about it was even more confusing. He subconsciously taught you to ignore bad behavior and pretend like it's not happening. It's why you people please and have a hard time protecting yourself in relationships. He never showed you how to set boundaries, which is why sometimes the passive parent is even more damaging. It's not what they did.

#passive #childhoodtrauma #enablers #peoplepleasing #healingfromtrauma
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Spiritual
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Dr. Nicole, The SelfHealers Circle, How to be the love you seek
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