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complete transcript: The youngest parentified daughter: what it feels like

Daughter: I'm the youngest parentified daughter, so I'm always dismissed and seen as the baby.
Parent: but you had it so easy, we spoiled you.
Daughter: actually I grew up too fast. I had to prove to everyone that I wasn't the baby and I deserved to be taken seriously. I lived in your shadow and did everything I could to be seen. I was actually an anxious mess, but nobody noticed.
Daughter: I'm really empathetic and intuitive. I would point things out but no one would listened to me. I was never seen as being my own person, so I just stopped sharing. I started to become secretive. It wasn't worth mentioning things to people who just didn't listen.
Parent: Come to think of it you never really told us anything. Mom always does say that.
Daughter: yep but I have a lot of silent strength. I can cope with chaos and I'm independent. And now I'm growing into my own person.
Parent: What is it you're actually looking for?
Daughter: just acknowledgment for the burden I carried. And for someone to tell me, I know it hasn't actually been easy for you. Or maybe for someone to notice how everyone leans on me.
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