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Signs parentified adult
Complete transcript:

The holistic psychologist: A sign that you've been parentified is that you're over-invested in your partners or your family members life. For example, you feel responsible for them getting and keeping a job. For them taking care of their own health or even fixing their relationships.

You don't see people as responsible for their own behaviors and their outcomes in life. Because you take on this role, you're often exhausted, burnt out, or resentful. This is because you're actually not responsible for anyone else's life outcomes.

And when we are over responsible for other people we're actually treating more like a child than an adult and this creates a lot of resentment. It also creates an unequal dynamic where we're giving so much and we're not receiving.

So when you notice yourself feeling resentful or really angry in relationships I want you to ask yourself "Am I taking more responsibility for someone who should be taking responsibility for themselves?"

And this answer is gonna give you a lot of insight into your relationships.
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Spiritual
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Dr. Nicole, The SelfHealers Circle, How to be the love you seek
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