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Complete transcript: Unrealistic expectations from emotionally immature parents | Explained
Therapist: The emotionally immature parent sees their children as a source of their self esteem. Their children really do have an unspoken job, and that job is to soothe their own emotions. Not to have their own opinion and never to talk back.
They believe that their children should understand the sacrifices that they made and to praise them consistently for making those sacrifices. They don't understand that children aren't responsible for meeting their parent's emotional needs. Children have their own emotional needs, and it's the parent's responsibility to meet them.
Emotionally immature parents tend to create people-pleasers, because their children learn to be a constant source of emotional validation.
Order my books:
"How To Be The Love You Seek"
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"How to Meet Yourself"
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"How to Do the Work"
https://theholisticpsychologist.com/how-to-do-the-work/
Get my FREE Relationship Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/relationship-future-self-journal/
Complete transcript: Unrealistic expectations from emotionally immature parents | Explained
Therapist: The emotionally immature parent sees their children as a source of their self esteem. Their children really do have an unspoken job, and that job is to soothe their own emotions. Not to have their own opinion and never to talk back.
They believe that their children should understand the sacrifices that they made and to praise them consistently for making those sacrifices. They don't understand that children aren't responsible for meeting their parent's emotional needs. Children have their own emotional needs, and it's the parent's responsibility to meet them.
Emotionally immature parents tend to create people-pleasers, because their children learn to be a constant source of emotional validation.
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